Changing Lives, One Spank At A Time - On Disability & Kink With Joshua And Mary
We talk about the intersection between kink/BDSM with disability, the ways play can be adapted and tweaked to best suit different abilities and needs, the issues around stigma and fetishizing disability, green and redflags.
We also dive deep into professional domination, how to ensure consent, the importance of friendships before play, integrity, and vulnerability…
Joshua is a 41 year old professional dominant, who is into photography, martial arts and philosophy. Mary is 31 year old process manager, who enjoys singing, disability advocacy and all things Halloween.
We talk about the intersection between kink/BDSM with disability, the ways play can be adapted and tweaked to best suit different abilities and needs, the issues around stigma and fetishizing disability, green and redflags.
We also dive deep into professional domination, how to ensure consent, the importance of friendships before play, integrity, and vulnerability.
The total consent acronym discussed:
M: Marks
I: Injuries and illnesses
T: Triggers, turnoffs, tone, time
P: Proximity
I: Interaction and intensity
S: Safewords
A: Anything else
Links mentioned
‘Twas The Day Of Harvest End
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You can find Joshua here: masterjoshua.com, kinkcollective.net, and Mary here: @kinkabilities.
Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes
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Embracing The Serenity That Pain Can Bring With Eli
Eli discuss the appeal novelty in BDSM, one night stands versus relationships, the need for respect online and real life, submission in an out of the bedroom & the pre-work needed to be successful, degradation kinks, the dance of domination & submission, signs of consent, and safe words.
We also discuss the concept of sub-spaces, with the revelation that it may be a goal in and of itself (non-sexual). We also discuss the interplay between society, family, religion and culture with kink…
Eli is a 32 year old math tutor from USA who enjoys reading, baking, anime, and star gazing.
We discuss the appeal novelty in BDSM, one night stands versus relationships, the need for respect online and real life, submission in an out of the bedroom & the pre-work needed to be successful, degradation kinks, the dance of domination & submission, signs of consent, and safe words.
We also discuss the concept of sub-spaces, with the revelation that it may be a goal in and of itself (non-sexual). We also discuss the interplay between society, family, religion and culture with kink.
Trigger warning - parts of this podcast may be confronting for some listeners.
Links Mentioned:
Models - Mark Manson
Vampire Hunter - Laurall K. Hamilton
Rachel’s Confession
You can find Eli on Instagram: @preyplaysgames
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Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes
Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1
Exploring The 'What If's' With Loni
Loni joins us for a discussion on sapiosexuality, sex as art and embracing curiosity.
We discuss the problem of becoming defined by labels, the ethics of consent, kinks all being a spectrum - rather than a binary category, being attracted to the process of the mind, and the relationship between sexual and mental health. From there we…
Loni joins us for a discussion on sapiosexuality, sex as art and embracing curiosity.
We discuss the problem of becoming defined by labels, the ethics of consent, kinks all being a spectrum - rather than a binary category, being attracted to the process of the mind, and the relationship between sexual and mental health.
She leads me through the Yoga Nidra practice of ‘Sankalpa’, with the goal of channelling the generated sensual energy into all aspects of life.
We talk about age play, re-watching movies as adults and deriving new meanings, the positives and negatives of the interplay between the internet and kink, Netflix and chill, and how sapiosexuals have sex.
I end the podcast with a reading of the poem ‘Sapiosexual’.
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You can find Loni on Instagram: @lonip89
Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes
Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1