Leaving My Husband & Coming Out As Gay With Esther
Esther discusses her experiences growing up gay within a religious community, diving into the shame, self doubt, confusion, and feelings of loneliness that comes when you are fundamentally different from those around you. She shares her journey of coming out of the closet, and into a happy lesbian relationship, one that enables her to live her truth.
We also discuss the connections between the pill and arousal, the impact of adults modelling appropriate behaviours, heartbeat fetishes, feeder kinks, and thinking yourself into orgasm…
Esther is a 30 year old music teacher from Australia who enjoys psychology, sociology, self-sufficiency and neuroscience.
We discuss her experiences growing up gay within a religious community, diving into the shame, self doubt, confusion, and feelings of loneliness that comes when you are fundamentally different from those around you. She shares her journey of coming out of the closet, and into a happy lesbian relationship, one that enables her to live her truth.
We also discuss the connections between the pill and arousal, the impact of adults modelling appropriate behaviours, heartbeat fetishes, feeder kinks, and thinking yourself into orgasm.
Links Mentioned:
Gary Vaynerchuck
Eye Dilation Study
3M Littmann Classic III Monitoring Stethoscope
Greg’s Confession
You can find Esther on her website: fromnarcissismtonirvana.com
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Embracing The Serenity That Pain Can Bring With Eli
Eli discuss the appeal novelty in BDSM, one night stands versus relationships, the need for respect online and real life, submission in an out of the bedroom & the pre-work needed to be successful, degradation kinks, the dance of domination & submission, signs of consent, and safe words.
We also discuss the concept of sub-spaces, with the revelation that it may be a goal in and of itself (non-sexual). We also discuss the interplay between society, family, religion and culture with kink…
Eli is a 32 year old math tutor from USA who enjoys reading, baking, anime, and star gazing.
We discuss the appeal novelty in BDSM, one night stands versus relationships, the need for respect online and real life, submission in an out of the bedroom & the pre-work needed to be successful, degradation kinks, the dance of domination & submission, signs of consent, and safe words.
We also discuss the concept of sub-spaces, with the revelation that it may be a goal in and of itself (non-sexual). We also discuss the interplay between society, family, religion and culture with kink.
Trigger warning - parts of this podcast may be confronting for some listeners.
Links Mentioned:
Models - Mark Manson
Vampire Hunter - Laurall K. Hamilton
Rachel’s Confession
You can find Eli on Instagram: @preyplaysgames
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Hypno-Kink & 24/7 Dom Sub Relationships With Miss Caprea Nox
Miss Caprea Nox is a licenced hypnotherapist who is into cinema, art, and LARP.
She discusses her experiences as a Fem Dom in a 24/7 Dom-Sub relationship, the goal of total power exchange, the Dom persona, private versus public play, and conflict resolution within their dynamic.
We dive deep into her use of hypnosis….
Miss Caprea Nox is a licensed hypnotist who is into cinema, art, and LARP.
She discusses her experiences as a Fem Dom in a 24/7 Dom-Sub relationship, the goal of total power exchange, the Dom persona, private versus public play, and conflict resolution within their dynamic.
We dive deep into her use of hypnosis within the context of BDSM - covering how, why, ethics, and after care. We also touch upon amnesia play, no touch orgasms, sub space, and RACK.
Links mentioned
Mind Play: A Guide To Erotic Hypnosis - Mark Wiseman
The Mind Play Study Guide - Mark Wiseman
Female Dominance: Midori
Reading My Mind - Short Story
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You can find Miss Caprea Nox Instagram: @caprea.nox and at caprea-hypnosis.com
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Dangerously Attractive Red Flags (Sultry Soundbite)
Sultry soundbites are 2-10 minute snippets where I talk sex, sensuality, and seduction.
They are exclusive to Patreon supporters on the $5p/m tier.
Sultry soundbites are 2-10 minute snippets where I talk sex, sensuality, and seduction.
They are exclusive to Patreon supporters on the $5p/m tier.
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For Science! With Jay
Jay is a yogi from Kenya who enjoys poetry, true crime, and hot chillies!
She shares her experiences with outdoor play, syncing with with social events, the love/hate relationship with risk and the discovery of impact play….
Jay is a yogi from Kenya who enjoys poetry, true crime, and hot chillies!
She shares her experiences with outdoor play, syncing with with social events, the love/hate relationship with risk and the discovery of impact play.
We talk about self expression and exploration through sexuality, discuss the nature of kinks and how we are all kinky in our own way.
She leads me through a slow breathing exercise designed to get you and your partner into sync, and we set her some experiments to try and report back on for her next appearance on the podcast:
1: Try electro shock play in different areas
2: Try speeding up the breath whilst staying in sync
3: Recording the sound of impact play and playing it back
4: Experimenting with all kinds of unknowns/anticipation
Links mentioned
My Secret Garden - Nancy Friday
Big Magic - Elizabeth Gilbert
Fleeting (poem)
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You can find Jay on Medium and on her website
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How To Slide Into The DM's With Casey
Casey is a hair and make up artist from the United States who enjoys photography, baking, and travel.
She shares the pitfalls most people fall into when entering the DM’s and provides guidance on how to take better ‘produce pictures’.
We dissect her experience with an epic house party, digging into the practicalities of FFF threesomes, impact play, and wild outdoor group gatherings. We also discuss…
Casey is a hair and make up artist from the United States who enjoys photography, baking, and travel.
She shares the pitfalls most people fall into when entering the DM’s and provides guidance on how to take better ‘produce pictures’.
We dissect her experience with an epic house party, digging into the practicalities of FFF threesomes, impact play, and wild outdoor group gatherings. We also discuss the LGBT+ rainbow mafia, the realities of bisexuality, switching, as well as how to pick up in the lesbian community.
We end the talk with a handy take home list for people wanting to play:
1: Angle and style matter for photographs
2: When entering the pile, take a friend
3: Bribe the neighbours before a party
4: Clean with lemon scented Lysol
5: Choose the music to match the mood and don’t change it half way through
6: Live away from home if you want to have fun
7: ‘Up cup’ the butt
8: When picking up, lean into your nerdy side
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You can find Casey on Instagram: @88caseyjones
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Exploring The 'What If's' With Loni
Loni joins us for a discussion on sapiosexuality, sex as art and embracing curiosity.
We discuss the problem of becoming defined by labels, the ethics of consent, kinks all being a spectrum - rather than a binary category, being attracted to the process of the mind, and the relationship between sexual and mental health. From there we…
Loni joins us for a discussion on sapiosexuality, sex as art and embracing curiosity.
We discuss the problem of becoming defined by labels, the ethics of consent, kinks all being a spectrum - rather than a binary category, being attracted to the process of the mind, and the relationship between sexual and mental health.
She leads me through the Yoga Nidra practice of ‘Sankalpa’, with the goal of channelling the generated sensual energy into all aspects of life.
We talk about age play, re-watching movies as adults and deriving new meanings, the positives and negatives of the interplay between the internet and kink, Netflix and chill, and how sapiosexuals have sex.
I end the podcast with a reading of the poem ‘Sapiosexual’.
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You can find Loni on Instagram: @lonip89
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Listen To Episodes Early & Access The Exclusive Discord Channel!
Thank you to everyone who is tuning in, the response has been out of this world! So many messages, comments, reviews and DM’s!
In this episode I talk about the process of becoming a guest as well as some of the benefits you will get by becoming a Patreon supporter!
Check it out: Patreon supporters on the $5p/m tier will receive…
Thank you to everyone who is tuning in, the response has been out of this world! So many messages, comments, reviews and DM’s!
In this episode I talk about the process of becoming a guest as well as some of the benefits you will get by becoming a Patreon supporter!
Check it out: Patreon supporters on the $5p/m tier will receive:
- Early access to all episodes the moment they are edited (public release schedule is 2/month)
- Exclusive access to behind the scenes content & outtakes.
- Access to the 'Kinky Community Discord Channel' - connect with other listeners, talk about the episodes, and explore your KINKS!
- Chance to interview me on the podcast (every so often I will raffle the chance to do a 'reverse podcast' where you ask me the questions!)
- Shout outs at the end of the episode!
- Creative input: I will ask for input on who to interview and what to ask, as well as what extra benefits and bonuses to provide here and on the discord channel!
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Friends With Benefits with Missy
Missy is a psychology student from the United States who’s planning to focus on sex therapy.
She talks about her experiences with outdoor play, the link between sexual and mental health (trigger warning), the issues around online sexual expression, ‘non pain’ Masochism/degradation play, sub/dom drops, vulnerability, interrupting the mainstream narratives, the logistics of group play, and how to have a successful friends with benefits relationship.
Missy is a psychology student from the United States who’s planning to focus on sex therapy.
She talks about her experiences with outdoor play, the link between sexual and mental health (trigger warning), the issues around online sexual expression, ‘non pain’ Masochism/degradation play, sub/dom drops, vulnerability, interrupting the mainstream narratives, the logistics of group play, and how to have a successful friends with benefits relationship.
On this theme, I share my short story ‘friends with benefits’.
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You can find Missy on Instagram: @miss_missy_347
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Horror Movies & Chill with Lynn!
Lynn is a play space monitor for Edge House, a kink/edge play and education based fetish group. She talks about her experiences with group sex, risk aware play, the importance of prepping and vetting, as well as polyamory and open relationships. She shares some great advice for 1st timers and those wanting to go deeper into the scene…
Lynn is a play space monitor for Edge House, a kink/edge play and education based fetish group. She talks about her experiences with group sex, risk aware play, the importance of prepping and vetting, as well as polyamory and open relationships. She shares some great advice for 1st timers and those wanting to go deeper into the scene.
We also discuss the connection between mental health and sexual expression, including the use of BDSM as a way to channel extreme self destructive and risk taking behaviours into something far more positive (self harm is briefly discussed).
This podcast ends with an amazing take away that applies to both sexuality, mental health and life in general, “you are not alone”.
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You can find Lynn on Instagram: @lynniebunnie36
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Welcome To The Kinky Conversations Podcast
Welcome to The Kinky Conversations Podcast, where consent is king, pleasure is queen, and exploration of sexual expression is the name of the game!
Join your host, Zachary Phillips, as he interviews real people to find out what is really happening behind closed doors.
Nothing is off limits!
Welcome to The Kinky Conversations Podcast, where consent is king, pleasure is queen, and exploration of sexual expression is the name of the game!
Join your host, Zachary Phillips, as he interviews real people to find out what is really happening behind closed doors.
Nothing is off limits!
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Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes
Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon