My Core Beliefs, Mission & Action Statement
/I believe in informed enthusiastic consent in all things - If you and everyone involved are not saying ‘fuck yes’ to an idea, event, or action it’s a ‘hell no’…
Read MoreStop Kink Shaming Yourself - Your Kinks Are Valid. Yes, Even ‘That’ Kink..
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There are certain activities that get me going. Certain situations, objects, places, and parts that really take sex to the next level. Don’t get me wrong, vanilla ice-cream is tasty, but sometimes I need to add some sprinkles and hot fudge sauce to enjoy my banana split sundae…
Read MoreFrozen In Time - The Life Long Impact Of Trauma
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Somewhere along the line I lost contact with myself. Trauma froze me in time. This made me withdraw from people.
Connection now scares me.
Being thus frozen, my way of looking at the world, from a relationship perspective also froze. At the time of the freeze I was young. At that age, socialising is often facilitated by the adults for the child, it’s rarely done directly.
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