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How To Reframe Negative Self Talk
Learning Life Skills You Were Never Taught As A Child
You Are Allowed To End Toxic Relationships
The 13 Rules of Drug Dealing I Learnt As The Son Of A Dealer
What I Learnt Grappling for 24 Hours Straight
I Just Completed 75 HARD & The Results Are Unimpressive
I Am A Survivor Slut: On Trauma and Hyper Sexuality
There Is Something Spiritual About Cutting Your Hair
Why Mental Illness Does Not Excuse Your Behavior Towards Others
My Core Beliefs, Mission & Action Statement
I believe in informed enthusiastic consent in all things - If you and everyone involved are not saying ‘fuck yes’ to an idea, event, or action it’s a ‘hell no’…
Finding Safety in Safe Words
Terms like sapiosexual, demisexual, pansexual, get thrown around a lot, and I’ve always wondered where I fit on the spectrum. A review of my past partners, and passed attractions, reveals something interesting to me. I don’t really have one type.
Whilst I have certain preferences and prefer to connect over intelligence/humour/personality/drive. One trait above all seems to rule out everything else. I’m attracted to clarity….
Why I Stopped Watching Porn
“I don’t watch porn, that shit rots your brain.”
These words were casually said to me by a friend of mine. We were discussing different ways that we ‘Guard Our Mental State’. Basically talking about mental health and the things that we do to ensure that we stay in a stable place …
Why I Write Erotica
On the surface, what follows could be taken merely as smut, and rightly so, I have written these poems purposefully to arouse you, and I do so hope to be successful in that endeavour…
Don’t Stop Supporting Pride Month - My Story
The story of ‘that’ tattoo, pride month, and the nature of online discourse…
Sex Toys, Shame and Making Your Man Moan
Society seems to want to vilify all forms of desire and lust, while simultaneously using those very natural pulls to sell everything….
Why Porn Is Cheating, But Sex With A Side Piece Isn't
Fallacious title, but go with me for a moment. What does it mean to ‘cheat’ on your partner? Can you actually define where that line is, or is there some ambiguous knowing that will occur that will somehow inform you when it happens?
Let me ask you some questions….
Stop Kink Shaming Yourself - Your Kinks Are Valid. Yes, Even ‘That’ Kink…
There are certain activities that get me going. Certain situations, objects, places, and parts that really take sex to the next level. Don’t get me wrong, vanilla ice-cream is tasty, but sometimes I need to add some sprinkles and hot fudge sauce to enjoy my banana split sundae…