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- What I Learnt Grappling for 24 Hours Straight
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-I Am A Survivor Slut: On Trauma and Hyper Sexuality
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What I Learnt Grappling for 24 Hours Straight
Completing 24 hours of continuous BJJ was a challenging experience. I learnt a lot, both about myself as a person, as well as about the art of BJJ.
This post will outline these lessons, as well as highlight the aspects of the mindset, nutrition and recovery needed to attempt a 24 hour exercise session.
Completing the 24hr-Grapple-A-Thon was one of my life goals, something that I have been dreaming of doing since I first started martial arts at 6 years old.
What To Do After A Fight
A violent conflict is a serious event, you could face psychological, physical or legal consequences for your involvement - even if you didn't "start it'. You need to know what to do post conflict - what to do after a fight.
What You Need To Know To End a Fight Quickly
You need to know how to end a fight quickly: you have been pushed, punched, grabbed or charged at. Maybe a weapon is pulled. What do you do?
You will have to act fast, because the chances of an undesirable outcome for you is increasing exponentially every second.
The 100 Meter Sprint - The Best Martial Arts For Self-Defense You Will Ever Learn
I often joke with my students that ‘the best martial arts for self-defense is the 100-meter sprint’. But there is a lot of truth to it. If you are not being restrained, just run. Don’t think about it, just get out of there, fast ...
Preventing Conflict Is The Best Form Of Self-Defense
If you want to stay safe it really is simple, do not put yourself in danger in the first place. Obvious I know, but many martial arts instructors fail to emphasize this point. Preventing conflict is the best thing you can do to keep yourself safe.
Lessons Learned from Ten Years of Adults Martial Arts Classes
Adults martial arts classes have been a lifesaver for me in many ways over the years. They have taught me discipline, resilience, and a way to navigate the chaos of conflict, both physical and mental.