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Inner Work:
- Shadow Work Journal PDF
- What Is Intuitive Coaching?
- Choosing A Meditation Object
- There Is Something Spiritual About Cutting Your Hair
- How To Reframe Negative Self TalkPersonal Development:
- Learning Life Skills You Were Never Taught As A Child
- What I Learnt Grappling for 24 Hours Straight
- I Just Completed 75 HARD & The Results Are UnimpressiveRelationships & Sexuality:
-You Are Allowed To End Toxic Relationships
-Why Mental Illness Does Not Excuse Your Behavior Towards Others
-The 13 Rules of Drug Dealing I Learnt As The Son Of A Dealer
-I Am A Survivor Slut: On Trauma and Hyper Sexuality
-Why I Stopped Watching Porn
Complexities of Communication: Why No One Will Ever Truly Understand Your Writing
Communication, either via words on a page, or spoken, is not perfect. The speaker formulates a concept in their mind (imagery, feelings, sensations, memories, emotions) and condenses all of that down into words and expresses it…
So You Want To Sell Your Self-Published Poetry…
To sell anything, you need two things: a product people want and the awareness of its existence. To sell your self-published poetry is no different.
Your muse may balk at the suggestion, but your book is a product like everything else. So, if you want people beyond just your close friends and family to purchase it, you need to reconcile that fact.
Success will come when you learn how to move people’s emotions…
i find myself through poetry
When I write, I lose myself in the present moment. I tap into the muse, put pen to paper, and all else disappears.
Then, some indeterminant time later, it ends. I don’t exactly know what it is: inspiration, flow, creativity, but all of a sudden I wake up to myself, finding the present moment, along with some words on a page expressing a moment in time, or a thought, or beauty.
That, or a palimpsest of healing. Words written by myself, about myself, for myself about finding myself…
Write What You Know, Not What You Think Will Sell
Pro tip: write what you know, not what you think will sell.
One of the main problems creatives of all persuasions have, is that they attempt to replicate the current trends. They see what is working and then try to do it themselves, only to get discouraged when they fail to see similar results…
Not All Poetry Feedback Is Equal: Stop Taking Their Words Personally
Not all poetry feedback is equal, nor is it equally appreciated. It depends on what you write, who is offering the feedback, and the type of relationship you share.
I write poems about sex, sadness, and spirituality, thus my audience is broad and eclectic. I want to be read wildly by most everyone, except perhaps by my family, colleagues, neighbours, and acquaintances who may (read have) raised a few eyebrows at my work…
What Is Evocative Poetry?
Evocative poetry, like all good art moves people. It changes their emotional state – usually from neutral or mellow, towards any extreme. This change isn’t always in the positive direction. Good horror will terrify you, a masterful comedy will have you in hysterics, and any existential thriller worth its salt will leave you questioning the very nature of reality and the people within it…
Elements Of Poetry
Poetry is just words on a page.
Anything beyond that definition risks falling into a philosophical or literary debate that would amount to such an abstraction of the beauty of the artform as to render it pointless. There are no rules. No restrictions. No limits to what you can and can’t, or to what you should and shouldn’t do.
A lot of this book will help you to hone that expression, giving you tips, tools, and tricks to make it more evocative. But that is all just make up and window dressing. Expression is the key. Some people gravitate towards rhymes and structure, others to free-flowing verse, others still, to long form paragraphs or books, crafting each line with meticulous care. It is all just writing. It is all just words on a page. It is all just poetry…
Play It Again Daddy
If you have children or younger siblings, you will know just how obsessive they can be when it comes to watching their favourite movies. Often they will want to watch the same show again and again to the exasperation of the rest of the family. Relentlessly quoting their favourite lines and demanding that it is always on.
For the most part, this is a win-win. This hypnotising program can serve as a well-deserved respite from the pressures of raising children. For a few precious hours, they are entertained and mum and dad can relax. They can get onto that project they have been meaning to do, read a book, exercise or have a long overdue adult conversation.