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How To Reframe Negative Self Talk
Learning Life Skills You Were Never Taught As A Child
You Are Allowed To End Toxic Relationships
The 13 Rules of Drug Dealing I Learnt As The Son Of A Dealer
What I Learnt Grappling for 24 Hours Straight
I Just Completed 75 HARD & The Results Are Unimpressive
I Am A Survivor Slut: On Trauma and Hyper Sexuality
There Is Something Spiritual About Cutting Your Hair
Why Mental Illness Does Not Excuse Your Behavior Towards Others
Sex Toys, Shame and Making Your Man Moan
Society seems to want to vilify all forms of desire and lust, while simultaneously using those very natural pulls to sell everything….
Stop Kink Shaming Yourself - Your Kinks Are Valid. Yes, Even ‘That’ Kink…
There are certain activities that get me going. Certain situations, objects, places, and parts that really take sex to the next level. Don’t get me wrong, vanilla ice-cream is tasty, but sometimes I need to add some sprinkles and hot fudge sauce to enjoy my banana split sundae…
I Am A Survivor Slut – On Trauma and Hyper Sexuality
There is a direct connection between my mental state and arousal. When triggered, I go one of two ways; meltdown or hyper sexuality…
Jealous and Polyamorous – Your Feelings Are Valid, & What To Do About Them!
To be clear, whatever you are feeling is valid, normal, and likely has been felt by many other people in your situation. Regardless of if you are new to the ethical non monogamous (ENM) space or a veteran, emotions can, and should continue to, arise.
But should you do with those emotions? Particularly the ones that are ‘bad’?
Instagram Is A Massive Prude & It's Disrupting The Sexual Health Of Society
I want to make it clear that I am 100% supportive of the intent behind these guidelines: Consent is king. Safety is paramount. Minors must be protected.
My problem is with the execution and judgement of what is considered acceptable and what isn’t. Put simply, questionable posts are flagged and removed by algorithms/AI whose decision can then be appealed and supposedly reviewed by a real person…