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163: Embracing Darkness To Better See The Light
Everybody’s life has unique challenges, but no matter where we find ourselves, there are still positives to embrace, along with the realisation that it could be worse.
In this episode I discuss how contemplating darkness has helped me to better see the light, and how it could help you as well.
159: Using Brutal Honesty To Align Your Actions With Your Purpose
Unless you are completely honest with yourself, your actions will be out of line with your true purpose. By ‘true purpose’ I am not referring to anything religious or spiritual. I am referring to what you as an individual, given your unique set of genetics and environmental influences, is best set up to do.
131: Dealing With Triggers & Trauma
When you are triggered, you feel like the trauma is happening again.
This is never an easy situation to manage. Whilst triggered, you will experience intense emotions combined with a diminished ability to cope.
This can lead to catastrophe.
In this episode I discuss how I manage my triggers, both internally, as well as how I explain it to those close to me.
129: The Fallacy Of Success - Why We Underestimate The Struggle
It is all to easy to look at the end result of someones life and believe that they had it easy, and that they knew where they were going.
We are blessed with hindsight and detachment.
Every successful person has their cross to bear. Most had no idea that they would make it to the heights that they did.
What does it take to keep going? How do you know that you are on the ‘right path’?
128: Adjusting To The New Normal - Morning Routines, Self Care & Your Circle Of Influence
There is a new normal coming, one of restrictions & social isolation - this is an unavoidable reality. But what can we do to stay mentally healthy?
In this episode I discuss the importance of accepting reality, establishing a morning routine and planning your day. I also highlight the increased need for effective self care and a shift towards focusing only on your circle of influence.
127: Adapting To New Realities: Social Distancing, Financial Strain & Mental Health
State wide lock-downs are in place, effectively shutting down normal life as we know it. This presents obvious challenges, both financial, social and mental.
Adapting to these changes will take time, but it is possible.
In this episode I discuss my reaction to the Corona-virus situation, the need for continuing self care, as well as the potential state of the world moving forward.
126: Fear - The Real Danger Of The Coronavirus
There is always something to be afraid of.
This is by design. The media outlets, social media platforms and people in the public domain all have a vested interest in promoting this fear: it keeps you coming back for more information.
This leads to advertisement revenue.
The real world risk for most of us from the Coronavirus is minimal. There is little that you can do to prevent it.
I prefer to step back, turn off the 24hr news cycle and look at life as it actually is, not as what I am being told it is.
126: Maintaining Mental Health During The Coronavirus
The Coronavirus is causing a disruption to normal life.
For me this has meant stopping social gatherings, reducing my training, delaying profession development, and most significantly, the postponement of my therapy sessions.
Maintaining mental health is vital at all times, but particularly now.
In this episode, I discuss the impact of the Coronvirus, and what I am doing about it.